.rdp and is usually on your desktop.Why it has to be saved. The setting lives inside that shortcut file rather than in Remote Desktop itself. If you change it from the Remote Desktop window without saving back to the file, it works this once and then forgets. Editing the shortcut and saving makes it stick for good.
If you start Remote Desktop from the Start menu and type the server name each time:
Your monitors need to be arranged as one continuous row in Windows display settings for this to work smoothly. If one screen sits off on its own, the remote session can leave gaps.
If you only want two of your three screens used, that is not something Remote Desktop offers directly. It is all of them or one of them.
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